When Real Life Ruins a Good StoryIABIZonline - The Advocate for Iowa BusinessWritten by Jill Brimeyer Monday, September 10, 2007 What happens when someone celebrated in your magazine is shortly thereafter outed as a person of (allegedly) less than stellar character? It's every editor's nightmare... having the bright shining face of someone who's been celebrated in the pages of your magazine splashed across the front page of the paper in the scandal of the day. You get bonus points (and extra wind knocked out of you) if the picture used in the paper is the same one you used in your publication. Well, that's exactly what happened when we at IA.biz innocently reached out the door to the front stoop last week to fetch the Des Moines Register. We unfurled the paper, expecting a pleasant, leisurely read about biofuels and Britney Spears over our morning toast and chai. (And yes, we do enjoy speaking in the royal "we" on occasion. Typically while drinking chai.) But alas, it was not to be. Instead, glaring from above the fold was a picture of Debra Christopher, Des Moines' technology director, and a story on her abrupt "mutual resignation," and the ways in which she left the city's IT systems in disarray. Business as usual in the Big City, except for the unfortunate fact that in our July issue of IA.biz magazine we held Christopher up as a model of successful Iowa businesswoman-hood. Oy. Did Ms. Christopher singlehandedly compromise the city's IT infrastructure due to overspending, incompetence, and the like? I'm not in a position to know or to judge. Heck, my most recent technological coup was scoring a solid Wi-Fi connection from the Panera parking lot. Most disturbing to me, though, was the fact that five people left the 21-person department during Christopher's brief, 18-month tenure. One gentleman who left was quoted as saying, "I've never in my career been treated that way." When people -- some of them with 20-plus years on the job -- flee the company to escape your leadership, you have a serious problem. I, like most of us who've been in the workforce any length of time, have experienced that flush-faced, heart-racing-in-your-throat feeling of being intimidated, disrespected, or otherwise abused in the workplace. There was even an early job I had where I worked with a sadistic person in a powerful position who left hives and anxiety attacks in his wake (he was later, mercifully, fired). No, a good leader shouldn't drive you to reach for your Valium. I don't argue that job performance is important. But even more critical, in my book, is doing your job with some intrinsic core values; values that lead you to treat peers and first reports alike with respect and dignity; to engage them, empower them, help them fully use their talents, and appropriately value their contributions. If Christopher did not do this, then she is definitely not a beacon to be emulated, even outside of any job performance issues. Now, here comes the "I told you so" part. One individual cautioned us on our choice of Christopher, mentioning that she had a reputation for being tough and sometimes abrasive. But it was hearsay, and we gave her the benefit of the doubt. After all, many excellent businesswomen have run up against the notion, whenever they display assertiveness or tough negotiation acumen, that they are too strident and aggressive. It becomes hard to sort out reality from perceptions colored by old social mores. So... count me among the disappointed. I'm not saying that women need to be shrinking violets in the workplace. Quite the contrary. But, truly, regardless of whether you're sporting an X or Y chromosome, you can be both strongly goal-oriented and kind. And if you can't pull that off that second part, getting to the first isn't going to be half as meaningful. Readers have left 3 comments Untitled Guest User, Unregistered Guest User, Unregistered Guest User, Unregistered |